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Do Exams Feel Too Much for You? Knowing How to Handle Test Anxiety

By Sivan Ibragimov, Registered Psychotherapist (RP)2025-08-12Updated 2026-10-061 min readMental Health Education
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Many people suffer from test anxiety, yet it's frequently hidden or misinterpreted. Before taking an exam, some people experience a brief period of anxiety. For others, it's an overwhelming and ongoing experience that impairs performance, memory, and focus. The emotional burden of test anxiety can be difficult to bear, whether you're a professional taking a license exam, a student getting ready for finals, or a parent seeing your child dread test days.

While some stress and worry before an exam is completely normal, severe or persistent anxiety can make it challenging to perform well academically, and can cause a cycle of dread and avoidance. The body's stress reaction, which is meant to keep us attentive, can go wrong and make it more difficult to remember information or think effectively. However, therapy can break this pattern. By working with a therapist, you can explore the ideas and actions that contribute to your anxiety, learn coping strategies, and build confidence. Involving parents through family therapy can also help kids or teenagers feel less pressured and have a more balanced approach to school and success at home.

Some minor and valuable adjustments that can be helpful are keeping a steady study routine, prioritizing sleep, eating well, moving your body, and practicing mindfulness or deep breathing can help reduce test anxiety to ensure it's under control and improve your academic performance. Even the little things, such as shifting self-talk from “I can't do this” to “I've prepared, I will get through this, and do my very best” on the test day, can make it a balanced, more manageable experience.

Sources

  1. How to Reduce Test Anxiety and Academic Procrastination Through Inquiry of Cognitive Appraisals: A Pilot Study. Frontiers in Psychology, 2019.
  2. Meta-analysis of the relationship between university students' anxiety and academic performance during the COVID-19 pandemic. Frontiers in Psychology, 2023.

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